Reflections of Swedish Fathers in Late Adulthood on Their Past and Present Parental Role in Relation to the Mother

Bibliographic Data

ID21392029
AuthorsMaria Wängqvist (0000-0001-9792-2519, Department of Psychology University of Gothenburg Göteborg Sweden, corresponding author), Nathalie Korhonen (Department of Psychology University of Gothenburg Göteborg Sweden)
Year2026
Publication date2026-02-02
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueScandinavian Journal of Psychology (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0036-5564 • E-ISSN: 1467-9450
PublisherWiley (PUBLISHER • GB)
DOI10.1111/sjop.70079
PMID41626703
OpenAlexW7127199646
LanguageEN
References cited35

With a contextual and developmental perspective, this study aimed to examine Swedish late‐adult fathers' reflections on their past and present parental role in relation to the mother and to see how these reflections incorporate changes in gender and parenthood during recent decades in Sweden. Twenty Swedish fathers of adult children, aged 61–77 years, participated in an interview concerning their parental identity. Answers concerning their reflections on their parental role over time and in relation to mothers were analyzed using thematic analysis. We formulated themes concerning their (1) self‐positioning as a father in relation to the mother and gendered norms; (2) the fathers' wishes to have done things differently while expressing that they had no regrets over the choices they had made as a parenting couple; (3) alleviating regret by relating to history‐graded changes and societal and relational contexts; and (4) an experience of “growing together” as parenting partners, interpreted as the co‐construction of a joint parental identity, expressed either as a conflict‐free conversation climate around parenting being interpreted as agreement or as a joint understanding emerging through discussions about parenting issues. Analyses deepened the understanding of the traditional allocation of parental roles and how fathers, in light of their lifelong parenthood and current retrospective perspective, may wish they had done things differently, while simultaneously saying they had no regrets as their joint choices had made sense at the time and seeing the fact that the “kids are alright” as proof of their successful parenthood

Child rearing · Conversation · Parenting styles · Regret · Relation (database) · Thematic analysis · Family Dynamics and Relationships · Family Support in Illness · Intergenerational Family Dynamics and Caregiving