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Keeping silent to keep the peace’

Changes in grandmother's access to their grandchildren following the loss of the son/father

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ID11202124
AuthorsIrit Regev (0000-0001-9179-5205, Sapir College, corresponding author), Yael Hochman (0000-0003-1352-8069, Sapir College), Einav Segev (0000-0002-0715-1616, Sapir College)
Year2023
Volume43
Issue3
Pages625-642
Publication date2023-03-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueAgeing and Society (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0144-686X • E-ISSN: 1469-1779
PublisherCambridge University Press (CUP) (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1017/s0144686x21000969
OpenAlexW3182134544
LanguageEN
References cited37

Relations between grandmothers and their grandchildren following the loss of the son/father have not been studied to date. The present article focuses on this experience, as reflected in the stories of grandmothers (bereaved mothers) and spouses (widows) after the loss, and explores the perception of grandparenthood following the loss of the son/husband. Twenty semi-structured interviews were conducted with ten grandmothers (bereaved mothers) and spouses (widows) who were recruited as a convenience sample. Data were subjected to thematic analysis. The findings revealed three key patterns of the grandmother–grandchild relations, as perceived by the two groups of women. The patterns indicate complex relations between widows and bereaved mothers, which have implications for the access of the grandmothers to their grandchildren and for their perception of grandparenthood. The study sheds light on the patterns of relations in families that have lost the son/husband/father. The change in power balance between family members and the asymmetry in the family structure created by the absence of the son/husband affect grandparenthood relations. The study emphasises the role of the widows, as the middle generation, in shaping or mediating relationships following the loss. The findings stress the importance of clinical intervention with both the bereaved mothers and the widows

Developmental psychology · Grandchild · Grandparent · Intervention (counseling) · Perception · Psychiatry · Qualitative research · Sociology · Thematic analysis · Family Support in Illness · Grief, Bereavement, and Mental Health · Intergenerational Family Dynamics and Caregiving · Psychology · Social Psychology

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