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Building relational trust and hope

The experiences of counsellors in a service for birth relatives whose children have been adopted or taken into care

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ID11942383
AuthorsLizette Nolte (0000-0002-4895-2831, University of Hertfordshire, corresponding author), Caoimhe Forbes (University of Hertfordshire)
Year2023
Volume47
Issue1
Pages77-93
Publication date2023-03-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueAdoption & Fostering (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0308-5759 • E-ISSN: 1740-469X
PublisherSAGE Publishing (PUBLISHER • US)
DOI10.1177/03085759231162110
OpenAlexW4360851766
LanguageEN
References cited46

The profound and lasting impact of losing a child to adoption or foster care has been powerfully described, and the importance of offering therapeutic support to birth relatives is a requirement in most parts of the UK. However, little is known about effective counselling for this group. In this article, we report on the experiences of four counsellors and a project worker who offer counselling to birth relatives whose children have been removed following care proceedings. We present their reflections under four themes, namely: ‘It’s all about the person, it’s all about the relationship’; ‘Meeting clients where they are’; ‘Having a sense of achievement’; and ‘This work can really get into you’. These accounts offer valuable reflections for others offering counselling to birth relatives and their supervisors, as well as those who commission and design these services

Commission · Foster care · Political science · Service (business · Work (physics · Child Abuse and Trauma · Child Welfare and Adoption · Grief, Bereavement, and Mental Health · Medicine · Nursing · Psychology

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