Faking to finish
Women’s accounts of feigning sexual pleasure to end unwanted sex
Bibliographic Data
| ID | 18985486 |
|---|---|
| Authors | Emily J Thomas (0000-0002-7084-8563, Toronto Metropolitan University, corresponding author), Monika Stelzl (0000-0002-1003-9318, St. Thomas University), Michelle N Lafrance (0000-0002-0988-0708, St. Thomas University) |
| Year | 2017 |
| Volume | 20 |
| Issue | 3 |
| Pages | 281-301 |
| Publication date | 2017-03-01 |
| Peer Reviewed | Yes |
| Open Access | Yes |
| Type | ARTICLE |
| Venue | Sexualities (JOURNAL) |
| Journal identifiers | ISSN: 1363-4607 • E-ISSN: 1461-7382 |
| Publisher | SAGE Publications (PUBLISHER • US) |
| DOI | 10.1177/1363460716649338 |
| OpenAlex | W2487685365 |
| Language | EN |
| Citations received | 43 |
| References cited | 41 |
In this article, we explore women’s accounts of consensual but unwanted sex, and how these accounts connect to feigning sexual pleasure. Interviews were conducted with 15 women and we employed a discursive analytic approach to examine the data. All women used discursive features (e.g. negation, hedging) to situate at least one of their past sexual experiences as problematic although all avoided the use of explicit labels such as rape or coercion. Furthermore, women commonly faked orgasm as a means to end these troubling sexual encounters. We argue the importance of considering women’s accounts of ‘problem’ sex so these experiences are not dismissed
Human sexuality · Negation · Orgasm · Pleasure · Poison control · Psychoanalysis · Psychotherapist · Sexual attraction · Sexual behavior · Sexual coercion · Sexual desire · Sexual dysfunction · Sociology · Gender Studies · Gender, Feminism, and Media · Human Factors and Ergonomics · Medicine · Psychology · Sexual Assault and Victimization Studies · Sexuality, Behavior, and Technology · Social Psychology
Towards responsible ejaculations
Pornography and accommodation
Psychosocial and Behavioral Aspects of Women’s Sexual Pleasure
Emotion Regulation Difficulties and Sexual Motivation Associated with Faking Orgasm among Hungarian Women
Suffering in Silence
Defining and Measuring Sexual Consent within the Context of University Students’ Unwanted and Nonconsensual Sexual Experiences
The pleasure imperative? Reflecting on sexual pleasure’s inclusion in sex education and sexual health
Squirting Scripts
What does faking orgasms have to do with sexual consent
‘Pay close attention to what my eyes are saying without having to spell it out’
Faking, finishing and forgetting
Sexually progressive and proficient
Mis/representation and the media
‘She doesn’t think that happens’
Remembering rape
Faking It, Finishing, and Ambivalence
“It definitely was consensual, but…”
Negotiating sexual agency in marriage
My partner will think I’m weak or overthinking my pain’
The Prioritization of Women’s Orgasms During Heterosex
The Influence of Types of Stimulation and Attitudes to Clitoral Self-stimulation on Female Sexual and Orgasm Satisfaction
All in all it is just a judgement call’
Informal Sex Education by Youth Practitioners
Sexual subjectivity discourses of middle-aged women in Slovakia
Reciprocity, Partner Pressure, and Emotional Labor
The Impact of Coercive Control on Use of Specific Sexual Coercion Tactics
Difference or dysfunction
Damned if you do, damned if you don’t”
Securing sex
Sexual dysfunction or sexual discipline? Sexuopharmaceutical use by men as prevention and proficiency
I Just Go with It”
Beyond Yes and No
When Desire Fades
The Development and Validation of the Orgasm Beliefs Inventory
When Orgasms Do Not Equal Pleasure
Beliefs About Gender Predict Faking Orgasm in Heterosexual Women
Rapping about pleasure
A Qualitative Meta-Synthesis of Women’s Experiences of Internalized Sociocultural Sexual Pressure
What Is the Patriarchy Doing in Our Bed? Violent Sexual-Affective Experiences Among Youth
With Pleasure
Unpacking the popularity of a paper on feigning sexual pleasure
Queerying consent
Feminist Men and Sexual Behavior
Performing Sex
Doing Discourse Analysis
When “no” becomes “yes”
Sexuality Education and Desire
Interruptus Coitus
The `Fair Deal'? Unpacking Accounts of Reciprocity in Heterosex
Postfeminist sexual agency
Coming to power
Labouring on orgasms
Accounting for orgasmic absence
Postfeminist media culture
Sex, Organs and Audiotape
Technologies and Effects of Heterosexual Coercion
III. Wanting and Not Wanting Sex
Mapping Invisible Work
Feminist Poststructuralism and Discourse Analysis
Beyond “Empowerment”? Sexuality in a Sexist World
I'd be just as happy with a cup of tea”
Faking it The Story of “Ohh!”
The ideology of choice. Overstating progress and hiding injustice in the lives of young women
On Negation as Mitigation
It Feels So Good It Almost Hurts”
Navigating Ambivalence
The Making of Unwanted Sex
Men's and Women's Reports of Pretending Orgasm
Conceptualizing the “Wantedness” of Women's Consensual and Nonconsensual Sexual Experiences
Feigning sexual desire
Counterfeit pleasures
Just Say No? The Use of Conversation Analysis in Developing a Feminist Perspective on Sexual Refusal
Sexuality, Schooling, and Adolescent Females
Empowerment/Sexism
What is 'normal' about women's (hetero)sexual desire and orgasm
Faking Like a Woman? Towards an Interpretive Theorization of Sexual Pleasure
Talking and Listening from Women's Standpoint
Coming, Coming, Gone
| Unique citing works | 43 |
|---|---|
| Citations per year | 4,78 |
| Citation span | 2017 - 2026 (10) |
| Citation velocity | current |
| Highly cited | No |
| Citation types | Neutral: 43 |