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The Men We Loved

Male Friendship And Nationalism in Israeli Culture

Bibliographic Data

ID19920022
AuthorsDanny Kaplan (0000-0003-3569-2863, corresponding author)
Year2006
Pages190
Publication date2006-11-01
Open AccessNo
TypeBOOK
VenueMen We Loved (SOURCE_BOOK)
PublisherBerghahn Books (PUBLISHER • GB)
DOI10.3167/9781845451929
OpenAlexW4400020296
Open LibraryOL8959876M
ISBN9781845451929
LanguageEN
Citations received36

Some semi-public, exclusive male settings, most noticeably in the military, encourage the production of intimacy and desire. Yet whereas in most instances this desire is displaced through humor and aggressive gestures, it becomes acknowledged and outright declared once associated with sites of heroic death. In his provocative study of interrelations between friendship in everyday life and national sentiments in Israel, the author follows selected stories of friendship ranging over early childhood, school, the workplace, and some unique war experiences. He explores the symbolism of friendship in rituals for the fallen soldiers, the commemoration of Prime Minister Yzhak Rabin, and the national infatuation with recovering bodies of missing soldiers. He concludes that the Israeli case offers an extreme instance of a much broader cultural phenomenon: declaring the friendship for the dead epitomizes the political “blood pact” between men, taking precedence over the traditional blood ties of kinship and heterosexual unions. The book underscores nationalism as a homosocial-based emotion of commemorative desire

Gender, Security, and Conflict · History · Jewish and Middle Eastern Studies · Memory, Trauma, and Commemoration · Psychology · Anthropology, cultural · friendship · Israel · Jewish studies · Land forces & warfare · Male friendship · Men · Men's Studies · Nationalism · Social Science · Social, group or collective psychology · Sociology

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    Open Access•Simon Coleman•Journal of the Royal Anthropologica…•2026

  • Social club sociability as a model for national solidarity

    Open Access•D Kaplan•American Journal of Cultural…•2016

  • Platoon’ Friendship of the Soviet Academic Diaspora

    Open Access•Irina Isaakyan•Studies in Ethnicity and…•2010

  • The perception of masculinity among Religious Zionist rabbis in Israel

    Avishay Mizrachi, Ronit Irshai•Journal of Modern Jewish Studies•2025

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    Yael Ben David, Orly Idan•International Feminist Journal of…•2018

  • Pinkwashed

    Brett Remkus Britt•International Feminist Journal of…•2014

  • Exploring the reproduction of conflict through narrative

    Phillip L Hammack•Peace and Conflict Journal of…•2009

  • A Line from a Song that Punches You in the Stomach” –Music and the Negotiations of Cultural Memory in Facebook

    Mor Yachin, Noam Tirosh•Popular Music & Society•2021

  • Narrative and the Politics of Identity

    Open Access•Phillip L Hammack•Narrative and the politics of…•2010

  • Inclusive masculinity and Czechia youth

    Open Access•Viktor Chvatík, Jack Hardwicke et al.•International Sociology•2022

  • Imagining national solidarity

    Open Access•D Kaplan•European Journal of Cultural and…•2021

  • Between the Social and the Personal

    Maya Tsfati, Adital Ben‐ari et al.•Journal of GLBT Family Studies•2019

  • Brotherhood of the Rope

    Open Access•Zala Pavšič•Nationalities Papers•2026

  • Paying for Sex While Traveling As Tourists

    Ayelet Prior, Einat Peled•The Journal of Sex Research•2018

  • Joining the tribe

    L Remennick•Culture Health & Sexuality•2022

  • Digital Militarism

    Open Access•Oren Livio•European Journal of Communication•2016

  • Workplace friendships between men

    Open Access•Nick Rumens•Human Relations•2010

  • Protean Masculinity, Hegemonic Masculinity

    Open Access•Thomas Kühne•Central European History•2018

  • Narratives of the homoerotic soldier

    T Gitzen•Cultural Studies•2022

  • Unit Social Cohesion in the Israeli Military as a Case Study of “Don't Ask, Don't Tell

    Open Access•Danny Kaplan, Amir Rosenmann•Political Psychology•2012

  • Freemasonry as a playground for civic nationalism

    Open Access•Danny Kaplan•Nations and Nationalism•2014

  • What can the concept of friendship contribute to the study of national identity

    Open Access•Danny Kaplan•Nations and Nationalism•2007

  • Securitized volunteerism and neo-nationalism in Israel's rural periphery

    Open Access•Nir Gazit, Erella Grassiani•Current Sociology•2023

  • I’m a proud Israeli

    Open Access•Moran M Mandelbaum•Psychoanalysis Culture & Society•2018

  • A Life Worth Living

    Open Access•Shirly Bar-Lev, Efrat Tillinger•Men and Masculinities•2010

  • Between Crisis and Opportunity

    Open Access•Lior Birger, Einat Peled•Men and Masculinities•2022

  • Positive Masculinity Among Latino Men and the Direct and Indirect Effects on Well-Being

    Open Access•Fernando Estrada, G Miguel Arciniega•Journal of Multicultural…•2015

  • Young men's friendships

    Rory Magrath, R Scoats•Journal of Gender Studies•2019

  • Chosen and collective friendship

    Open Access•Thalia Thereza Assan•The Sociological Review•2024

  • Firm Friends

    Open Access•Nick Rumens•The Sociological Review•2010

  • Disability, straight time, and the American Dream

    Open Access•Zoë Wool•American Ethnologist•2021

  • Commemorating a suspended death

    Open Access•Danny Kaplan•American Ethnologist•2008

  • The Songs of the Siren

    Open Access•Danny Kaplan•Cultural Anthropology•2009

  • Folk Models of Dyadic Male Bonds in Israeli Culture

    Open Access•Danny Kaplan•Sociological Quarterly•2007

  • Incentivized Obedience

    Open Access•Erica Wei, Erica Weiss•American Anthropologist•2016

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    Open Access•Danny Kaplan•American Anthropologist•2014

Unique citing works36
Citations per year1,89
Citation span2007 - 2026 (20)
Citation velocitycurrent
Highly citedNo
Citation typesNeutral: 35

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