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Healing Good-Byes and Healthy Hellos

Learning and Growing from Painful Endings and Transitions

Bibliographic Data

ID20177456
AuthorsFelipe García (0000-0001-7658-5832), Felipe N Garcia (corresponding author)
Year2012
Volume42
Issue1
Pages53-61
Publication date2012-01-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessNo
TypeARTICLE
VenueTransactional Analysis Journal (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0362-1537 • E-ISSN: 2329-5244
PublisherInforma UK Limited (PUBLISHER • GB)
DOI10.1177/036215371204200107
OpenAlexW1997914787
LanguageEN
Citations received4
References cited4

This article presents a model that is useful for healing, learning, and growing from painful experiences, endings, and transitions in relationships. The learning and growing process applies whether the painful endings are the result of a game or natural life experiences and circumstances. The new awareness and learning from mistakes can then be applied to the new beginnings and to new hellos with the same person or in a new relationship. This nonblame good-bye/hello model encourages clients to become aware of their patterns of relating, to keep what is working, change what is not, and let go, grieve, and heal those losses that cannot be changed. Case examples illustrate uses of the model. Additional informationNotes on contributorsFelipe GarciaFelipe Garcia, M.A., LMFT, Teaching and Supervising Transactional Analyst (psychotherapy), is a consultant and trainer in human relations and effective communications and a licensed marriage and family therapist in San Antonio, Texas. He has been in private practice for 35 years. Felipe can be reached at 9900 Escondida Rd., Helotes, Texas 78023, U.S.A.; e-mail: [email protected]

Cognitive psychology · Cognitive science · Psychotherapist · Sociology · Computer Science · History · Psychology · Social Psychology · Transactional Analysis in Psychotherapy

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Unique citing works4
Citations per year0,33
Citation span2014 - 2025 (12)
Citation velocityrecent
Highly citedNo
Citation typesNeutral: 4

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