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Sorrow and Ambivalence of Intergenerational Estrangement in Later Life

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ID21391826
AuthorsAndreas Nikolajsen (0009-0005-7081-0169, Department of Psychology and Behavioural Sciences Aarhus University and EGV Foundation Aarhus Denmark), Lars Larsen (0000-0003-1603-0311, Department of Psychology and Behavioural Sciences Aarhus University Aarhus Denmark), Bjørn E Holstein (0000-0002-4348-280X, National Institute of Public Health University of Southern Denmark Copenhagen Denmark), Bjørn E Holstien (University of Southern Denmark, corresponding author), Christine E Swane (EGV Foundation Copenhagen Denmark)
Year2026
Volume67
Issue3
Pages697-707
Publication date2026-06-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueScandinavian Journal of Psychology (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0036-5564 • E-ISSN: 1467-9450
PublisherWiley (PUBLISHER • GB)
DOI10.1111/sjop.70058
PMID41432152
OpenAlexW7116979375
LanguageEN
References cited38

Estrangement from adult children can be a painful experience. However, it remains to be investigated how older parents relate to estrangement and what factors predict these sentiments. This article investigated older parents' sentiments toward estrangement on dimensions of sorrow, ambivalence, and relief. Parent demographics and estrangement characteristics duration, initiative, and estrangement proportions were examined as predictors of parent sentiments. The study utilized cross‐sectional data from 75 older estranged parents aged 75+ ( m = 82). Descriptive statistics were used to determine the proportions of parent sentiments, demographics, and estrangement characteristics. Multiple logistic regression tested the predictive capacity of demographics and estrangement characteristics. The analysis found that sorrow and ambivalence both constituted parent sentiments, but not relief. More women than men expressed sorrow, while more men than women expressed ambivalence. Estrangement from all children was associated with ambivalence. Results support a theoretical emphasis on ambivalence as a framework for the understanding of estrangement and have implications for interventions aimed at reconciliation

Ambivalence · Demographics · Descriptive statistics · Logistic regression · Psychological intervention · Sorrow · Aging and Gerontology Research · Identity, Memory, and Therapy · Intergenerational Family Dynamics and Caregiving

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