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Remembering that “Everybody Hurts”

The Role of Self-Compassion in Responses to Rejection

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ID21477297
AuthorsErika J Koch (0000-0001-9063-8611, St. Francis Xavier University, corresponding author)
Year2020
Volume42
Issue3
Pages167-175
Publication date2020-05-03
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessNo
TypeARTICLE
VenueBasic and Applied Social Psychology (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0197-3533 • E-ISSN: 1532-4834
PublisherInforma UK Limited (PUBLISHER • GB)
DOI10.1080/01973533.2020.1726748
OpenAlexW3007060149
LanguageEN
Citations received7
References cited37

Self-compassion involves treating oneself kindly, acknowledging that all humans experience suffering, and maintaining a balanced awareness of negative thoughts and feelings. Three studies (N = 614) examined the potential role of self-compassion in response to interpersonal rejection. Study 1 recruited a large, diverse internet sample and explored relationships between general perceived acceptance and several outcome variables (affect, depression, self-esteem), testing whether self-compassion moderates these relationships. Similarly, Study 2 tested whether self-compassion moderates the relationships between daily acceptance/rejection and outcome variables. Finally, Study 3 tested whether a self-compassion manipulation effectively promotes coping with rejection. Taken together, results reveal that self-compassion both predicts (Studies 1 and 2) and promotes (Study 3) relatively adaptive responses to rejection. These results suggest that a self-compassionate mindset may lessen the sting of rejection

Compassion · Feeling · Mindfulness · Mindset · Self-compassion · Clinical Psychology · Death Anxiety and Social Exclusion · Mindfulness and Compassion Interventions · Psychology · Religion, Spirituality, and Psychology · Social Psychology

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Citations per year1.17
Citation span2020 - 2026 (7)
Citation velocitycurrent
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Citation typesNeutral: 7

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