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Simmering on the Back Burner or Playing with Fire? Examining the Consequences of Back-Burner Digital Communication Among Ex-Partners

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ID22004291
AuthorsJohn A Banas (0000-0002-5641-3985, University of Oklahoma, corresponding author), Jayson L Dibble (0000-0002-3390-9400, Hope College), Elena Bessarabova (0000-0003-1503-5196, University of Oklahoma), Michelle Drouin (0000-0003-0010-9260, Indiana University – Purdue University Fort Wayne)
Year2021
Volume24
Issue7
Pages473-479
Publication date2021-07-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueCyberpsychology Behavior and Social Networking (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 2152-2715 • E-ISSN: 2152-2723
PublisherSAGE Publications (PUBLISHER • US)
DOI10.1089/cyber.2020.0717
PMID34061657
OpenAlexW3165643716
LanguageEN
Citations received4
References cited31

Back burners are people with whom one communicates to potentially establish a future romantic or sexual relationship, and these relationships are common among college students. Using a sample of noncollege adults currently in committed relationships (N = 246) obtained via Amazon's MTurk, this study examines how a prior relationship role with a desired back burner (i.e., whether a back burner was an ex-partner or not) affects digital communication and sexual activity with back burners, and participants' negative affect. Sequential mediation analysis revealed that when the most-desired back burner was also an ex-partner (vs. not), participants digitally communicated more, increased communication was positively related to sexual activity with that back burner, and sexual activity was associated with negative affect in the participant. Even in the absence of sexual activity, both increased digital communication and simply having an ex-partner as one's most-desired back burner were associated with negative affect. Limitations and implications for staying in touch with ex-partners are discussed

Amazon rainforest · Biology · Mediation · Sociology · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Communication · Evolutionary Psychology and Human Behavior · Psychology · Sexuality, Behavior, and Technology · Social Psychology

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Citations per year1,33
Citation span2023 - 2025 (3)
Citation velocityrecent
Highly citedNo
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