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Sibling Relationships After the Death of a Parent During Childhood

“Everyone Carries Their Own Grief”

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ID24029265
AuthorsCarline J M van Heijningen (0000-0003-1903-3278, Leiden University), Annemarie Samuels (0000-0002-7379-5591, Leiden University), Andrea L Haccou (0009-0009-6687-7474, Leiden University), Bernet M Elzinga (0000-0002-8917-7368, Leiden University), Lenneke R A Alink (0000-0003-3459-0785, Leiden University), Sheila R Van Berkel (0000-0003-4555-4456, Leiden University)
Year2026
Publication date2026-08-17
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueOMEGA - Journal of Death and Dying (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0030-2228 • E-ISSN: 1541-3764
PublisherSAGE Publications (PUBLISHER • US)
DOI10.1177/00302228261474802
OpenAlexW7203631799
LanguageEN
References cited42

After the death of a parent, children have to adjust to changes in family roles and dynamics as a result of the loss, including the sibling relationship. The current qualitative study explored, using joint interviews with sibling pairs, how adult siblings experienced the death of their parent during childhood and their sibling relationship over time. Thirteen adult siblings from six families reflected upon their loss experiences and how these affected their sibling relationship. Most sibling pairs described a distance directly after parental death, and an alternating pattern of distance and closeness during adulthood. Sibling relationships were affected by the coping styles of the remaining parent and siblings, difficulties with sharing grief, and shifts in the roles of individual siblings. These findings may help improve support for remaining parents in their effort to help their children in the process of coping with their grief and adapting to the changed family situation.

Closeness · Coping (psychology) · Grief · Sibling · Sibling relationship · Family Support in Illness · Grief, Bereavement, and Mental Health · Intergenerational Family Dynamics and Caregiving

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