Going on holiday only to come home

Making happy families in Singapore

Bibliographic Data

ID5762018
AuthorsYinn Shan Cheong (0000-0002-3665-0617, National University of Singapore), Hye Lim Sin (0000-0001-7850-993X, Sun Yat-sen University, corresponding author)
Year2021
Volume23
Issue4
Pages765-786
Publication date2021-07-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessNo
TypeARTICLE
VenueTourism Geographies (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 1461-6688 • E-ISSN: 1470-1340
PublisherInforma UK Limited (PUBLISHER • GB)
DOI10.1080/14616688.2019.1669069
OpenAlexW2975374333
LanguageEN
Citations received8
References cited75

Family holidays have become a ubiquitous cultural norm – imagined as the epitome of family togetherness and encapsulated through the production of 'happy family' photographs. The pressure to conform to 'naturalized' idealizations of the family is underpinned by pervasive family ideology that remain hegemonic, despite the changing structures of modern family life. But how exactly does the 'happy family' materialise through tourism practices? What is it about the tourism time-space that differentiates it from home, transforming the ordinary family holiday into an extraordinary obligation that desires to be performed? These questions warrant an investigation into the exceptionalism of the family holiday, and we answer them by deconstructing the dilemma between the expectations and lived realities of modern family life, using the typical Singaporean nuclear family as an empirical lens. By amalgamating an 'everyday geographies' conceptual approach with Gilligan's (1982 Gilligan, C. (1982). In a different voice: Psychological theory and women's development. London: Harvard University Press.[Crossref] , [Google Scholar]) 'feminist ethics of care' perspective, the paper re-examines the seemingly banal practices of carework on the family holiday. It draws its findings from qualitative data based on focus group discussions conducted with five Singaporean families and an autoethnography of the first author's family holidays. The paper reveals that carework practices on holiday are perceived as a means for families to authenticate nostalgic identities about what a family is – perceived to be lost in modern life. These acts transform the holiday into a home-away-from-home, underpinned by a prioritisation of familial relationship. Hence, this paper conceptually formulates a reinterpretation of 'feminist ethics of care' as a morality whose salience through holiday practices renews family relationships of care with each recurring episode of the family holiday. This theorisation elucidates that the family tourism time-space is exceptional, simultaneously ordinary and extraordinary, existing in-between home and away. Through its (re)production of the 'happy family' identity, going on holiday has become one of the few ways of coming back home to the family

Autoethnography · Family life · Family values · Hegemony · Media studies · Narrative · Political science · Politics · Sociology · Tourism · Diverse Aspects of Tourism Research · Gender Studies · Law · Migration, Aging, and Tourism Studies · Socioeconomic Development in Asia

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