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Ideal Mate Personality Concepts and Compatibility in Close Relationships

A Longitudinal Analysis

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ID6203435
AuthorsManfred Zentner (0000-0001-6736-0770, University of Geneva, corresponding author)
Year2005
Volume89
Issue2
Pages242-256
Publication date2005-01-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessNo
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Personality and Social Psychology (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0022-3514 • E-ISSN: 1939-1315
PublisherAmerican Psychological Association (APA) (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1037/0022-3514.89.2.242
PMID16162056
OpenAlexW2096481933
LanguageEN
Citations received22
References cited53

How 2 personalities may be best combined in a couple has often been answered in terms of similarity in partner's personality characteristics. However, results have been inconsistent. The present study proposed that relationship outcomes should depend more on the similarity between individuals' ideal mate personality concepts (IMPCs) and their partner's personality as both perceived by the self and self-reported by the partner. Study 1 introduces a new Q-sort to assess IMPCs and provides evidence for the interindividual variability and the short-term consistency of IMPC. By following nonmarried couples over a 9-month period, Study 2 replicated findings from Study 1 and demonstrated that, overall, the current concept of congruence predicts relationship outcomes better than both personality similarity and the partner's individual personality traits

Agreeableness · Big Five personality traits · Congruence (geometry) · Developmental psychology · Extraversion and introversion · Personality · Personality psychology · Similarity (geometry) · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Evolutionary Psychology and Human Behavior · Personality Traits and Psychology · Psychology · Social Psychology

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Unique citing works22
Citations per year1,1
Citation span2006 - 2026 (21)
Citation velocitycurrent
Highly citedNo
Citation typesNeutral: 18

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