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Do New Romantic Couples Use More Similar Language Over Time? Evidence from Intensive Longitudinal Text Messages

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ID7524147
AuthorsMiriam Brinberg (0000-0001-5202-9292, Pennsylvania State University, corresponding author), Nilam Ram (0000-0003-1671-5257, Departments of Communication and Psychology, Stanford University, Stanford, CA 94305, USA)
Year2021
Volume71
Issue3
Pages454-477
Publication date2021-03-29
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Communication (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0021-9916 • E-ISSN: 1460-2466
PublisherOxford University Press (PUBLISHER • GB)
DOI10.1093/joc/jqab012
PMID34335083
OpenAlexW3147726020
LanguageEN
Citations received16
References cited36

The digital text traces left by computer-mediated communication (CMC) provide a new opportunity to test theories of relational processes that were originally developed through observation of face-to-face interactions. Communication accommodation theory, for example, suggests that conversation partners' verbal (and non-verbal) behaviors become more similar as relationships develop. Using a corpus of 1+ million text messages that 41 college-age romantic couples sent to each other during their first year of dating, this study examines how linguistic alignment of new romantic couples' CMC changes during relationship formation. Results from nonlinear growth models indicate that three aspects of daily linguistic alignment (syntactic-language style matching, semantic-latent semantic analysis, overall-cosine similarity) all exhibit exponential growth to an asymptote as romantic relationships form. Beyond providing empirical support that communication accommodation theory also applies in romantic partners' CMC, this study demonstrates how relational processes can be examined using digital trace data

Cognitive psychology · Conversation · Developmental psychology · Linguistics · Nonverbal communication · Romance · Similarity (geometry · TRACE (psycholinguistics) · Artificial Intelligence · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Communication · Computer Science · Media Influence and Health · Opinion Dynamics and Social Influence · Psychology · Social Psychology

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