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Differentiating between romantic and mature love

Revisiting the three caskets

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ID8973545
AuthorsJ F Steiner (0000-0002-6514-6057, British Psychoanalytical Society, corresponding author), John Steiner (British Psychoanalytical Society, London, UK)
Year2024
Volume105
Issue4
Pages564-575
Publication date2024-07-03
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessNo
TypeARTICLE
VenueThe International Journal of Psychoanalysis (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0020-7578 • E-ISSN: 1745-8315
PublisherTaylor & Francis (PUBLISHER • GB)
DOI10.1080/00207578.2024.2322081
PMID39230496
OpenAlexW4402226169
LanguageEN
Citations received1
References cited3

Freud's paper on the three caskets is revisited. His view that the lead casket represented death is supported by extracts from The Merchant of Venice, in particular the song, "Tell Me Where is Fancy Bred". It is argued that the acceptance of death is a necessary step in the transformation of romantic love to mature love. With experience of reality a disillusion of romantic idealisation becomes possible, but this means that losses have to be accepted and mourned. It is argued that this is made more bearable if an ironic stance enables an acceptance of the pleasures of romance without believing them to be literally true

Aesthetics · Art · Literature · Psychoanalysis · Romance · Counseling, Therapy, and Family Dynamics · Narrative Theory and Analysis · Philosophy · Psychology · Psychotherapy Techniques and Applications

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