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After coming out

Parental acceptance of young lesbian and gay people

Bibliographic Data

ID12912469
AuthorsApoorva Ghosh (0000-0001-8543-581X, University of California, Irvine, corresponding author)
Year2019
Volume14
Issue1
Publication date2019-12-11
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueSociology Compass (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 1751-9020 • E-ISSN: 1751-9020
PublisherWiley (PUBLISHER • GB)
DOI10.1111/soc4.12740
OpenAlexW2994813373
LanguageEN
Citations received23
References cited70

This study examines extant scholarly knowledge on parental acceptance of young lesbian and gay people in traditional heteronormative families. Recent literature shows that parents generally accept their lesbian and gay children. However, parents do not always accept them immediately after they come out. Acceptance takes time, and transitioning to acceptance is often a complex process that depends on parents' access to the necessary resources for coping with the stresses of knowing that their child identifies as lesbian or gay. These resources include counseling or therapy, supportive friends and extended family, and a network of other parents with lesbian and gay children. This study also highlights the need for further research on parental acceptance in nontraditional families and of children with other nonheterosexual identities, such as asexuality, gray ace, bisexuality, or pansexuality. It also calls for an exploration of the complexities of parental acceptance as an ongoing process rather than as a singular event

Coming out · Coping (psychology · Developmental psychology · Extant taxon · Lesbian · Psychoanalysis · Psychotherapist · Sociology · Gender Studies · LGBTQ Health, Identity, and Policy · Marriage and Sexual Relationships · Psychology · Reproductive Health and Technologies · Social Psychology

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Citations per year4,6
Citation span2021 - 2026 (6)
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