Skip to main content

ETHNOS_APP

Home • Search • Journals • List 0

Why do intimate partners live apart? Evidence on LAT relationships across Europe

Bibliographic Data

ID7743870
AuthorsAart C Liefbroer (0000-0002-7884-3150, Netherlands Interdisciplinary Demographic Institute), Anne‐rigt Poortman (0000-0002-5031-429X, University of Applied Sciences Utrecht), Anne-Rigt Poortman, J A Seltzer (0009-0005-4452-8231, University of California, Los Angeles), Judith Seltzer
Year2015
Volume32
Pages251-286
Publication date2015-01-28
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueDemographic Research (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 1435-9871 • E-ISSN: 2363-7064
PublisherMax Planck Institute for Demographic Research (PUBLISHER • DE)
DOI10.4054/demres.2015.32.8
PMID26085812
OpenAlexW2138872883
LanguageEN
Citations received45
References cited39

BACKGROUND: Most research asks whether or not cohabitation has come to rival marriage. Little is known about the meaning of living apart together (LAT) relationships, and whether LAT is an alternative to marriage and cohabitation or a dating relationship. OBJECTIVE: We examine across Europe: (1) the prevalence of LAT, (2) the reasons for LAT, and (3) the correlates of (a) LAT relationships vis-à-vis being single, married, or cohabiting, and (b) different types of LAT union. METHODS: Using Generations and Gender Survey data from ten Western and Eastern European countries, we present descriptive statistics about LATs and estimate multinominal logistic regression models to assess the correlates of being in different types of LAT unions. RESULTS: LAT relationships are uncommon, but they are more common in Western than Eastern Europe. Most people in LAT unions intend to live together but are apart for practical reasons. LAT is more common among young people, those enrolled in higher education, people with liberal attitudes, highly educated people, and those who have previously cohabited or been married. Older people and divorced or widowed persons are more likely to choose LAT to maintain independence. Surprisingly, attitudinal and educational differences are more pronounced in Eastern Europe than in Western Europe. CONCLUSIONS: A tentative conclusion is that LAT is more often a stage in the union formation process than an alternative to marriage and cohabitation. Yet some groups do view LAT as substituting for marriage and cohabitation, and these groups differ between East and West. In Eastern Europe a cultural, highly educated elite seems to be the first to resist traditional marriage norms and embrace LAT (and cohabitation) as alternative living arrangements, whereas this is less the case in Western Europe. In Western Europe, LAT unions are mainly an alternative for persons who have been married before or had children in a prior relationship

Cohabitation · Demographic economics · Economics · Elite · European union · Geography · Political science · Politics · Sociology · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Demography · Family Dynamics and Relationships · Gender Studies · Intergenerational Family Dynamics and Caregiving · Psychology

  • Beyond the Norm of Monogamy – Consensual Non-monogamy as an Example of a ‘Post-modern’ Relationship

    Open Access•Magdalena Lipnicka•Studia Socjologiczne•2023

  • From Living Apart to Living Together

    Open Access•Roselinde Van Der Wiel, Clara H Mulder et al.•Comparative Population Studies•2020

  • Analysing Transitions in Intimate Relationships with Panel Data

    Open Access•Michael Feldhaus, Richard Preetz•Comparative Population Studies•2021

  • Is Early Partnership Formation Instrumental for Fertility in Germany

    Open Access•Okka Zimmermann•Comparative Population Studies•2021

  • Does Sex Matter? The Role of Sexual and Relationship Satisfaction on Living Apart Together Relationship Transitions

    Open Access•Alexandra-Andreea Ciritel•Comparative Population Studies•2022

  • A Life Course Perspective on Living Apart Together

    Open Access•Inge Pasteels, Vicky Lyssens‐danneboom et al.•Social Indicators Research•2015

  • Living Apart Together and Older Adults’ Mental Health in the United Kingdom

    Open Access•Yang Hu, Rory Coulter et al.•The Journals of Gerontology…•2024

  • Safety First? On the Timing of Moving in With a Partner and Its Determinants

    Open Access•Julia Zimmermann, Gerald Prein•Swiss Journal of Sociology•2023

  • Cognitive and psychological health implications of living alone among middle-aged and older adults in China

    Ming Wen, Qiang Ren•Asian Population Studies•2021

  • The diverse nature of living apart together relationships

    Open Access•Arnaud Régnier‐loilier, Arnaud Régnier-Loilier et al.•Journal of Population Research•2018

  • A prospective study of relationship and sexual satisfaction during the first year of the Covid ‐19 pandemic

    Open Access•Julia Vigl, Francesca Talamini et al.•Journal of Personality•2023

  • Living Apart Together

    Open Access•Pedro Paulo Santos Cavalcante, Larissa Luz Raposo•Journal of Family Issues•2026

  • The Changing Links Between Socioeconomic Status and Single Women's Entry Into Parenthood

    Open Access•Denise B Musni, Christine Schnor•Journal of Marriage and the Family•2025

  • Parental involvement in stepfamilies

    Open Access•Ece Arat, Anne‐rigt Poortman et al.•Journal of Marriage and the Family•2022

  • Relationship quality in midlife

    Open Access•Susan L Brown, W D Manning et al.•Journal of Marriage and the Family•2022

  • Disaggregating the relationship between precarious employment and delayed marriage in Japan

    Open Access•Ryota Mugiyama•Social Science Research•2024

  • What future awaits couples Living Apart Together (LAT)

    Open Access•Luis Ayuso•The Sociological Review•2019

  • Does Marriage Really Improve Sexual Satisfaction? Evidence from the Pairfam Dataset

    E Kislev•The Journal of Sex Research•2019

  • Partnership patterns and homeownership

    Open Access•Michael J Thomas, Clara H Mulder•Housing Studies•2016

  • Non-familial coresidence and life satisfaction

    Open Access•Wenjie Wu, Yang Shen et al.•Habitat International•2020

  • Couple Formation is Prolonged not Postponed. New Paths to Union Formation in Contemporary France

    Open Access•Marie Bergström, Léonard Moulin•European Journal of Population /…•2022

  • Second Unions Now More Stable than First? A Comparison of Separation Risks by Union Order in France

    Open Access•Éva Beaujouan•European Journal of Population /…•2016

  • Intentions to Live Together Among Couples Living Apart

    Open Access•Alisa C Lewin•European Journal of Population /…•2018

  • Non-cohabiting Partners’ Economic Characteristics and the Transition to Living Together in Germany

    Open Access•Valeria Ferraretto, Nicole Hiekel et al.•European Journal of Population /…•2025

  • Moving in or Breaking Up? The Role of Distance in the Development of Romantic Relationships

    Open Access•Sandra Krapf•European Journal of Population /…•2018

  • The Transition to a Coresidential Partnership

    Open Access•Sandra Krapf, Clara H Mulder et al.•Population Research and Policy…•2022

  • Spatial Mobility, Family Dynamics, and Housing Transitions

    Open Access•Michael Wagner, Clara H Mulder•KZfSS Kölner Zeitschrift für…•2015

  • Families and Their Institutional Contexts

    Open Access•Karsten Hank, Anja Steinbach•KZfSS Kölner Zeitschrift für…•2019

  • Dynamiques, enjeux démographiques et socioéconomiques du vieillissement dans les pays à longévité élevée

    Open Access•Carole Bonnet, Emmanuelle Cambois et al.•Population•2021

  • Nouvelle vie de couple, nouvelle vie commune ? Processus de remise en couple après une séparation

    Open Access•Arnaud Régnier‐loilier, Arnaud Régnier-Loilier et al.•Population•2019

  • Les relations LAT ou living apart together

    Open Access•Christophe Giraud, Catriona Dutreuilh•Population•2023

  • Who Remains Single? Educational Gradients in Long-Term Singlehood Across Ethnic Groups

    Open Access•K Dederichs, Evelina T Akimova et al.•Journal of Marriage and the Family•2025

  • Mental Health Across the Life Course for Men and Women in Married, Cohabiting, and Living Apart Together Relationships

    Open Access•Deniz Yucel, Beth A Latshaw•Journal of Family Issues•2023

  • Union Formation Expectations Among Older Adults Who Live Apart Together in the USA

    Open Access•Huijing Wu, L Brown et al.•Journal of Family Issues•2022

  • Living-Apart-Together (LAT) in Contemporary Sweden

    Open Access•L S Olah, Lena Karlsson et al.•Journal of Family Issues•2023

  • Health and Relationship Quality Later in Life

    Open Access•Alisa C Lewin•Journal of Family Issues•2017

  • Ambivalence and Living Apart Together in Later Life

    Open Access•Ingrid Arnet Connidis, Klas Borell et al.•Journal of Marriage and the Family•2017

  • Commuter couples' life satisfaction in Korea

    Open Access•Yun-Suk Lee•International Sociology•2018

  • Social Disparities in Destandardization—Changing Family Life Course Patterns in Seven European Countries

    Okka Zimmermann, Dirk Konietzka•European Sociological Review•2018

  • Never partnered

    Open Access•D Bellani, G Esping-Andersen et al.•Demographic Research•2017

  • Does waiting pay off for couples? Partnership duration prior to household formation and union stability

    Open Access•Christine Schnor•Demographic Research•2015

  • The diversity in longitudinal partnership trajectories during the transition to adulthood

    Open Access•Barbara Elisabeth Fulda, Barbara Fulda•Demographic Research•2016

  • Partnership trajectories of people in stable non-cohabiting relationships in France

    Open Access•Arnaud Régnier‐loilier, Arnaud Régnier-Loilier•Demographic Research•2016

  • LAT relationships

    Open Access•Stefan Mauritz, Michael Wagner•Demographic Research•2021

  • Constructing a sense of commitment in 'Living Apart Together' (LAT) relationships

    Open Access•Karen Kobayashi, Karen M Kobayashi et al.•Current Sociology•2017

  • A Treatise on the Family

    Gary S Becker•Treatise on the Family•1991

  • What's the Latest? II. Cultural Age Deadlines for Educational and Work Transitions

    R A Settersten, Gunhild O Hagestad•The Gerontologist•1996

  • Why do people live apart together

    Open Access•Simon Duncan, Julia Carter et al.•Families Relationships and…•2013

  • On the other side of couplehood

    Lars Evertsson, Charlott Nyman•Families Relationships and…•2013

  • Living-apart-together in Britain

    J Haskey, Jane Lewis•International Journal of Law in…•2006

  • Bringing norms back in

    Open Access•Aart C Liefbroer, Francesco C Billari•Population Space and Place•2009

  • Neither single, nor in a couple. A study of living apart together in France

    Open Access•Arnaud Régnier‐loilier, Arnaud Régnier-Loilier et al.•Demographic Research•2009

  • The rise of cohabitation and childbearing outside marriage in western Europe

    Kathleen Kiernan•International Journal of Law…•2001

  • Understanding Diversity in the Meaning of Cohabitation Across Europe

    Open Access•Nicole Hiekel, Aart C Liefbroer et al.•European Journal of Population /…•2014

  • Unmarried Cohabitation and Parenthood in Britain and Europe

    Open Access•Kathleen Kiernan•Law & Policy•2004

  • Trends in living arrangements in Europe

    Open Access•Tineke Fokkema, Aart C Liefbroer•Demographic Research•2008

  • The three worlds of welfare capitalism

    Gøsta Esping-Andersen•The three worlds of welfare…•1990

  • Emerging adulthood

    Jeffrey Jensen Arnett•American Psychologist•2000

  • Cohabitation

    Ronald R Rindfu, Ronald R Rindfuss et al.•Population and Development Review•1990

  • Trends in cohabitation and implications for children s family contexts in the United States

    Larry Bumpa, Larry L Bumpass et al.•Population Studies•2000

  • The Unfolding Story of the Second Demographic Transition

    Open Access•Ron Lesthaeghe•Population and Development Review•2010

  • People Who Live Apart Together (LATs) - How Different are They

    Open Access•Simon Duncan, Miranda Phillips•The Sociological Review•2010

  • On Not Living with a Partner

    Open Access•Sasha Roseneil•Sociological Research Online•2006

  • Living Apart Together' relationships in the United States

    Open Access•Charles Strohm, Charles Q Strohm et al.•Demographic Research•2009

  • Not truly partnerless

    Open Access•Teresa Castro Martins, Teresa Castro Martín et al.•Demographic Research•2008

  • Generations and Gender Survey (GGS)

    Open Access•Andres Vikat, Zsolt Spéder et al.•Demographic Research•2007

  • Sociodemographic Differentials in Mate Selection Preferences

    J South, Scott J South•Journal of Marriage and the Family•1991

  • Alternative Routes in the Remarriage Market

    P M De Graaf, M Kalmijn•Social Forces•2003

  • Women's Employment as a Gift or Burden

    Open Access•Karen D Pyke, Karen Pyke•Gender & Society•1994

  • Living Apart Together

    Open Access•Irene Levin•Current Sociology•2004

  • The role of cohabitation in family formation

    Open Access•Patrick Heuveline, J M Timberlake•Journal of Marriage and the Family•2004

  • Remarriage, Unmarried Cohabitation, Living Apart Together

    Open Access•Jenny De Jong Gierveld•Journal of Marriage and the Family•2004

  • Weeding' in the Netherlands

    Erik Klijzing•European Sociological Review•1992

  • The First Cut is the Deepest? The Role of the Relationship Career for Union Formation

    Anne‐rigt Poortman, A-R Poortman•European Sociological Review•2007

  • Human Capital Investments or Norms of Role Transition? How Women's Schooling and Career Affect the Process of Family Formation

    Hans-Peter Blossfeld, Hans‐peter Blossfeld et al.•American Journal of Sociology•1991

  • Adolescent Competence and the Shaping of the Life Course

    John S Clausen•American Journal of Sociology•1991

  • A Theory of Marriage Timing

    Valerie Kincade Oppenheimer•American Journal of Sociology•1988

  • Living apart together

    Irene Levin, Jan Trost•Community Work & Family•1999

  • Singles' relational attitudes in a time of individualization

    Open Access•Anne‐rigt Poortman, Anne-Rigt Poortman et al.•Social Science Research•2010

Unique citing works45
Citations per year4,09
Citation span2015 - 2026 (12)
Citation velocitycurrent
Highly citedNo
Citation typesNeutral: 39
Ethnos_APP • Open Source Project • MIT License • Frontend v2.0.0 • Privacy and Cookies • API Documentation: api.ethnos.app/docs • API Source Code: GitHub • DOI: 10.5281/zenodo.17049435 • Frontend Source Code: GitHub • DOI: 10.5281/zenodo.17050053 • cruz.rio.br • Expectantes Misericordiae