Dirty laundry

The nature and substance of seeking relationship help from strangers online

Datos Bibliográficos

ID2932200
AutoresCharlotte Entwistle (0000-0002-2739-2644, Lancaster University, autor de correspondencia), Andrea B Horn (0000-0003-2729-7062, University of Zurich), Tabea Meier (0000-0003-2902-4113, University of Zurich), Ryan L Boyd (0000-0002-1876-6050, Lancaster University)
Año2021
Volumen38
Número12
Páginas3472-3496
Fecha de publicación2021-12-01
Peer ReviewedSí
Open AccessSí
TipoARTICLE
RevistaJournal of Social and Personal Relationships (JOURNAL)
Identificadores de la revistaISSN: 0265-4075 • E-ISSN: 1460-3608
EditorialSAGE Publications Inc (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1177/02654075211046635
PMID34924670
OpenAlexW3198305231
IdiomaEN
Citas recibidas12
Referencias citadas59

Interpersonal relationships are vital to our well-being. In recent years, it has become increasingly common to seek relationship help through anonymous online platforms. Accordingly, we conducted a large-scale analysis of real-world relationship help-seeking to create a descriptive overview of the nature and substance of online relationship help-seeking. By analyzing the demographic characteristics and language of relationship help-seekers on Reddit ( N = 184,631), we establish the first-ever big data analysis of relationship help-seeking and relationship problems in situ among the general population. Our analyses highlight real-world relationship struggles found in the general population, extending beyond past work that is typically limited to counseling/intervention settings. We find that relationship problem estimates from our sample are closer to those found in the general population, providing a more generalized insight into the distribution and prevalence of relationship problems as compared with past work. Further, we find several meaningful associations between relationship help-seeking behavior, gender, and attachment. Notably, numerous gender differences in help-seeking and romantic attachment emerged. Our findings suggest that, contrary to more traditional contexts, men are more likely to seek help with their relationships online, are more expressive of their emotions (e.g., discussing the topic of "heartache"), and show language patterns generally consistent with more secure attachment. Our analyses highlight pathways for further exploration, providing even deeper insights into the timing, lifecycle, and moderating factors that influence who, what, why, and how people seek help for their interpersonal relationships

Help-seeking · Interpersonal communication · Interpersonal relationship · Mental health · Population · Seekers · Sociology · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Impact of Technology on Adolescents · Mental Health via Writing · Psychology · Social Psychology