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Interpersonal Conflicts and the Touristic Experiences of Norwegian and British Women Travelling with Friends

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ID12697802
AuthorsBente Heimtun (0000-0002-6422-2169, Finmark University College, Alta, Norway, corresponding author), Fiona Jordan (0000-0001-9489-0726, University of the West of England, Bristol, UK)
Year2011
Volume11
Issue3
Pages271-290
Publication date2011-12-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueTourist Studies (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 1468-7976 • E-ISSN: 1741-3206
PublisherSAGE Publishing (PUBLISHER • US)
DOI10.1177/1468797611431504
OpenAlexW2029680811
LanguageEN
Citations received11
References cited63

Tourism is often portrayed by the tourism industry, tourists themselves and tourism scholars as a liminoid site of escape, happiness and freedom from constraint. For many, however, holidays do not live up to this expectation. This paper challenges the dominant tourism discourse of holidays as sites of unproblematic pleasure in examining contestation, conflicts and negotiations between women and their travelling companions. Drawing on conceptualizations of in-group interpersonal conflicts and theorization of the mobile social identities of women travellers, we explore the impact of holiday conflicts on women’s holiday experiences and friendships. The findings of this qualitative study of female tourists from Norway and the UK suggest that women adopt various strategies to deal with open and hidden conflicts that may threaten their friendships and holiday experiences. Such strategies include avoidance of conflict through compromise, negotiation of appropriate holiday behaviours prior to travel, or ultimately choosing to travel solo

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Citations per year0,85
Citation span2013 - 2025 (13)
Citation velocityrecent
Highly citedNo
Citation typesNeutral: 11

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