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Negotiating parenting practices

The arguments and justifications of Finnish couples

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ID13009443
AuthorsPetteri Eerola (0000-0002-9563-5871, Tampere University, corresponding author), Johanna Närvi (0000-0003-3082-5962, Finnish Institute for Health and Welfare), Johanna Terävä (0000-0003-2767-6169, University of Jyväskylä), Katja Repo (0000-0003-3463-0695, Tampere University)
Year2020
Volume10
Issue1
Pages119-135
Publication date2020-06-04
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueFamilies Relationships and Societies (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 2046-7435 • E-ISSN: 2046-7443
PublisherPolicy Press (PUBLISHER • GB)
DOI10.1332/204674320x15898834533942
OpenAlexW3033019473
LanguageEN
Citations received17
References cited29

This article explores Finnish different-sex couples’ ( n = 12) negotiations on their parental division of labour. Theoretically, the article is based on the literature on gendered parenting practices and relational negotiations. Our discourse analysis reveals how the couples produced ‘togetherness’ and ‘our family’ by representing their care practices as agreements, irrespective of whether the care was described as equally shared or distinctly gendered. Disagreements reflecting more individualistic tones, and mainly resulting from the mothers’ sense of unfairness, were especially foregrounded when the distribution of household duties was discussed. The analysis also revealed how men cited involved fatherhood as a justification for their lesser responsibility for housework, while women sought to reconcile the contradictory discourses of equal parenting and mother’s primacy. Our results show how personal wishes and preferences, work life, family policies and cultural discourses are reflected in couples’ negotiations on parenting practices and moral identities pertaining to ‘good’ motherhood and fatherhood

Division of labour · Individualism · Negotiation · Parental leave · Political science · Social science · Sociology · Work (physics · Gender Politics and Representation · Gender Studies · Law · Psychology · Social Policy and Reform Studies · Social Psychology · Work-Family Balance Challenges

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