Widowerhood”

Masculinities and Spousal Loss in the Late-1960s

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ID13629050
AuthorsJulia Bandini (College of the Holy Cross), Julia I Bandini (0000-0002-5485-6272, College of the Holy Cross, corresponding author), Edward H Thompson (0000-0003-2708-6871, College of the Holy Cross)
Year2014
Volume68
Issue2
Pages123-141
Publication date2014-01-18
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueOMEGA - Journal of Death and Dying (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0030-2228 • E-ISSN: 1541-3764
PublisherSAGE Publishing (PUBLISHER • US)
DOI10.2190/om.68.2.c
PMID24673039
OpenAlexW2001588509
LanguageEN
Citations received5
References cited47

This study examined the distinctly gendered experiences of young widowers. Using qualitative longitudinal data from the 1960's Harvard Bereavement Study, we evaluated the interview transcripts of 19 widowers (median age = 38) who had been interviewed 3 weeks, 8 weeks, 13 months, and 2-4 years after the wife's death. Our findings indicate that the off-time spousal loss ruptured the ontological security that marriage provided and created two types of difficult situations for the widowers. Coping with deep sadness and grief, the men divulged their unspoken dependency on their marriage and on their late wife. They also struggled as single fathers, especially if they tried to singlehandedly care for their children. Becoming an off-time widower in the 1960s compelled the men to reclaim their masculine identity. Men's identity-rebuilding strategies involved promptly returning to work, and many men began dating and repartnering to recoup the normalcy of being married

Sociology · American Political and Social Dynamics · Gender Roles and Identity Studies · Gender Studies · Historical Studies on Reproduction, Gender, Health, and Societal Changes · Psychology

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