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Regret and Repair

Experiences of Adult Children and Parents When a Father Remarries Soon After the Death of a Spouse

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ID13629803
AuthorsLindsey Nice (Pacific Lutheran University, corresponding author), Lindsey A Nice (Pacific Lutheran University), David B Jenks (0000-0002-8685-4458, Department of Human Development and Family Studies, Utah State University, Logan, United States), Camille A Saunders (Pacific Lutheran University), Leslie Chantel Quintero (Pacific Lutheran University)
Year2021
Volume87
Issue4
Pages1159-1173
Publication date2021-07-27
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueOMEGA - Journal of Death and Dying (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0030-2228 • E-ISSN: 1541-3764
PublisherSAGE Publishing (PUBLISHER • US)
DOI10.1177/00302228211036315
PMID34315287
OpenAlexW3183483204
LanguageEN
Citations received1
References cited26

The purpose of this study is to better understand what happens to families when a parent remarries quickly after the death of a long-term partner. Men typically re-partner much more rapidly than women do after the death of a spouse. We used a qualitative, grounded-theory method to interview six parents (all men) and their adult children (12 participants total) about their experiences when fathers lost their spouse and re-partnered quickly. We found a variety of reasons for rapid remarriage, and a number of implications for parent-child relationships, including feelings of losing one parent in body and another in relationship, different expectations between parents and children related to holding on to memories of the deceased and finding ways to let go, remaining parents looking back with unexpressed regret, and finally experiences of repair. Clinical recommendations for therapists are provided

Developmental psychology · Feeling · Grounded theory · Qualitative research · Regret · Remarriage · Sociology · Spouse · Family Dynamics and Relationships · Grief, Bereavement, and Mental Health · Homicide, Infanticide, and Child Abuse · Psychology · Social Psychology

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