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The adversity of secret relationships

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ID19003684
AuthorsCraig A Foster (0000-0002-7663-4582, University of Georgia, corresponding author), W Keith Campbell (0000-0002-4906-6663, United States Air Force Academy)
Year2005
Volume12
Issue1
Pages125-143
Publication date2005-01-27
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenuePersonal Relationships (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 1350-4126 • E-ISSN: 1475-6811
PublisherWiley (PUBLISHER • GB)
DOI10.1111/j.1350-4126.2005.00105.x
OpenAlexW1963950907
LanguageEN
Citations received8
References cited46

Are secret romantic relationships alluring or aversive? Previous research suggests that romantic secrecy (i.e., keeping a romantic relationship secret from others) creates a cognitive preoccupation that enhances romantic attraction. In contrast, we predicted that romantic secrecy interferes with relationship interdependence and thereby decreases relationship quality. Three studies of secrecy in ongoing romantic relationships confirmed this prediction. In Study 1, romantic secrecy predicted lower levels of initial relationship quality and decreased relationship quality over a 2‐week period. In Study 2, relationship burden mediated partially the negative association between romantic secrecy and relationship quality. In Study 3, the negative association between romantic secrecy and relationship quality was primarily explained by decreased relationship satisfaction. The importance of understanding romantic secrecy is discussed

Computer security · Developmental psychology · Epistemology · Psychoanalysis · Psychotherapist · Romance · Secrecy · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Computer Science · Death Anxiety and Social Exclusion · Evolutionary Psychology and Human Behavior · Philosophy · Psychology · Social Psychology

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