Breaking the Circuit
The Power of Empathy and Understanding Interlocking Racket Systems in Deepening Work With Couples
Bibliographic Data
| ID | 20178073 |
|---|---|
| Authors | Fran Parkin (Clear Science Corporation (United States), corresponding author) |
| Year | 2014 |
| Volume | 44 |
| Issue | 3 |
| Pages | 208-217 |
| Publication date | 2014-07-01 |
| Peer Reviewed | Yes |
| Open Access | No |
| Type | ARTICLE |
| Venue | Transactional Analysis Journal (JOURNAL) |
| Journal identifiers | ISSN: 0362-1537 • E-ISSN: 2329-5244 |
| Publisher | Informa UK Limited (PUBLISHER • GB) |
| DOI | 10.1177/0362153714550983 |
| OpenAlex | W2117958440 |
| Language | EN |
| Citations received | 4 |
| References cited | 7 |
This article outlines an approach for working with couples that develops Berne’s notion of human hungers—specifically recognition hunger—and how relationships can go awry when the primary need for recognition is not met. It links this need to Erskine and Zalcman’s (1979) racket system and develops Holtby’s (1979) concept of interlocking rackets. Whereas Holtby’s focus seemed primarily behavioral, this article takes into account Erskine’s more recent developments of the script system and presents intrapsychic interventions that alter the interlocking script system on a relational intrapsychic level so that changes occur at both intrapsychic and interpersonal levels. This approach suggests that by focusing on the repressed needs within a couple’s interlocking racket system, destructive patterns of communicating and relating can be short-circuited and replaced with safer, more secure ways of being together. The author outlines the process a therapist can follow to engage the couple using validation and empathy and illustrates this with a case example. This approach integrates new understandings from attachment theory, particularly the possibility of attachment patterns being modified through current relationships, including with the therapist as he or she provides a secure base
Cognitive science · Computer security · Empathy · Interlocking · Interpersonal communication · SAFER · Computer Science · Counseling, Therapy, and Family Dynamics · Engineering · Psychology · Psychotherapy Techniques and Applications · Social Psychology · Transactional Analysis in Psychotherapy
| Unique citing works | 4 |
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| Citations per year | 0,44 |
| Citation span | 2017 - 2025 (9) |
| Citation velocity | recent |
| Highly cited | No |
| Citation types | Neutral: 4 |