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I didn't Even Realize I Agreed to Meet the Child so Rarely.' Negotiations and Parental Desires in LGBTQ Family Forming Processes

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ID2348352
AuthorsSonja Anttila (0000-0002-2892-3486, University of Helsinki, corresponding author), Päivi Palojoki (0000-0001-7323-7015, University of Helsinki), Jaana Vuori (0000-0001-7383-4207, University of Eastern Finland), Hille Janhonen-Abruquah (University of Helsinki), Hille Janhonen‐abruquah (0000-0002-4159-4058, University of Helsinki)
Year2023
Volume44
Issue6
Pages1637-1661
Publication date2023-06-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Family Issues (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0192-513X • E-ISSN: 1552-5481
PublisherSAGE Publications Inc (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1177/0192513x211064862
OpenAlexW4200602637
LanguageEN
Citations received2
References cited36

This study explores the negotiations taking place in LGBTQ families before a child is born or added to the family. It asks who takes part in the negotiations and what issues are negotiated about. An online questionnaire answered by LGBTQ parents (n = 74) was analyzed with qualitative content analysis. The chain of phases leading to having a child can be referred to as a family forming process with various negotiation topics. The four phases are identified as parental desires, consideration of practices, reflecting on the decision, and concrete actions toward having a child. Besides the LGBTQ parents-to-be, significant others such as friends and the family of origin and external others such as donors and fertility clinics took part in the negotiations. Future parents needed to think about their desires in advance to enable fair and equal negotiations

Developmental psychology · Fertility · Lesbian · Negotiation · Population · Qualitative research · Social science · Sociology · Family Dynamics and Relationships · Gender Studies · LGBTQ Health, Identity, and Policy · Psychology · Reproductive Health and Technologies · Social Psychology

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Citations per year0,67
Citation span2023 - 2024 (2)
Citation velocityrecent
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