Love and marriage in a Sri Lankan Muslim community
Toward a reevaluation of Dravidian marriage practices
Bibliographic Data
| ID | 2467479 |
|---|---|
| Authors | Victor C De Munck (0000-0003-4548-6772, University of New Hampshire at Manchester, corresponding author) |
| Year | 1996 |
| Volume | 23 |
| Issue | 4 |
| Pages | 698-716 |
| Publication date | 1996-11-01 |
| Peer Reviewed | Yes |
| Open Access | Yes |
| Type | ARTICLE |
| Venue | American Ethnologist (JOURNAL) |
| Journal identifiers | ISSN: 0094-0496 • E-ISSN: 1548-1425 |
| Publisher | Wiley (PUBLISHER • GB) |
| DOI | 10.1525/ae.1996.23.4.02a00020 |
| OpenAlex | W2162753645 |
| Language | EN |
| Citations received | 28 |
| References cited | 36 |
I argue that structural and transactional models of Dravidian marriage practices cannot adequately account for the variation in mate selection in situations of arranged marriage practices exhibited among the Sri Lankan Muslims of Kutali. The inadequacy of these models is an outcome of three interrelated problems: (1) the assumption of a normative model for marriage; (2) a dichotomous conceptualization of marriage practices that divides them into love and arranged marriage categories; and (3) the absence of romantic love as a valid motivation for mate selection. In this article I show that villagers use a polythetic model for marriage in which core symbols of marriage category types are manipulated to serve as figure or ground depending on situational contingencies. Second, I show that love can be accommodated to an arranged marriage model. [arranged marriages, love marriages, Sri Lanka, love, core symbols, foreground, background
Arranged Marriage · Conceptualization · Demographic economics · Economics · Ethnology · Marriage market · Mate choice · Normative · Political science · Population · Research methodology · Romance · Selection (genetic algorithm · Situational ethics · Sociology · Sri lanka · Transactional sex · Anthropological Studies and Insights · Demography · Gender Studies · Islamic Studies and History · Law · Marriage and Sexual Relationships · Philosophy · Psychology · Social Psychology
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| Unique citing works | 28 |
|---|---|
| Citations per year | 1 |
| Citation span | 1998 - 2026 (29) |
| Citation velocity | current |
| Highly cited | No |
| Citation types | Neutral: 27 |