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Revealing Family Secrets

The Influence of Topic, Function, and Relationships

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ID2929564
AuthorsAnita L Vangelisti (0000-0002-8461-5859, University of Texas), John P Caughlin (0000-0003-2768-4839, University of Texas)
Year1997
Volume14
Issue5
Pages679-705
Publication date1997-10-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Social and Personal Relationships (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0265-4075 • E-ISSN: 1460-3608
PublisherSAGE Publications Inc (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1177/0265407597145006
OpenAlexW2146816282
LanguageEN
Citations received113
References cited29

Nearly every family has secrets. Some of these secrets are told; others are carefully hidden. Why is it that some people reveal their family secrets while others choose to conceal them? Two studies were conducted to investigate this issue by examining the association between the likelihood of revealing family secrets and (a) the topic of the secret, (b) the function of the secret, (c) satisfaction with one's family, and (d) the quality of the relationship with the potential target of the revelation. The correspondence between the number and function of family secrets and family satisfaction was also investigated. The data suggested that the function of secrets, family satisfaction, and the relationship people had with the target of their disclosure were related to whether family members were likely to reveal their secrets. The link between secret topic and the tendency to reveal secrets was unreliable, but there was an association between family members' perceptions of topic intimacy and the likelihood of revealing secrets

Association (psychology · Epistemology · Family member · Function (biology · Genealogy · Perception · Quality (philosophy · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Conflict Management and Negotiation · History · Psychology · Psychotherapy Techniques and Applications · Social Psychology · Genetics

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