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It's not just words coming from the mouth

The nature of compassionate love among older couples

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ID2931291
AuthorsAllen K Sabey (0000-0001-9605-8909, corresponding author), Amy J Rauer (0000-0002-4272-7641), Megan L Haselschwerdt (0000-0003-3498-5541, Auburn University)
Year2016
Volume33
Issue5
Pages640-665
Publication date2016-08-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Social and Personal Relationships (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0265-4075 • E-ISSN: 1460-3608
PublisherSAGE Publications Inc (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1177/0265407515588219
OpenAlexW2269894191
LanguageEN
Citations received5
References cited37

Compassionate love is an important characteristic of healthy close relationships. However, we know little about how compassionate love is behaviorally manifested. Furthermore, compassionate love may be uniquely experienced among older couples, as age-related challenges may require adjustments by spouses in providing more care for one another. Through interviews with 63 older married couples, this exploratory study examined the behavioral component of compassionate love among older couples as reported from the recipients' perspective. From the qualitative data analysis, 11 behavioral domains were identified, including caring for physical health and helping with household tasks. The examples varied greatly in magnitude and meaningfulness, from willingly moving around the country to fixing breakfast. Further, couples frequently highlighted acts related to their increasing age-related challenges, underscoring the importance of taking a life-span approach to the study of compassionate love. The results may be useful to further develop interventions promoting compassionate love, especially among older couples

Developmental psychology · Flexibility (engineering · Perspective (graphical · Psychiatry · Psychological intervention · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Intimate Partner and Family Violence · Psychology · Religion, Spirituality, and Psychology · Social Psychology

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