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On guard

Public versus private affection-sharing experiences in same-sex, gender-diverse, and mixed-sex relationships

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ID2931940
AuthorsKaren L Blair (0000-0002-8602-098X, Trent University, corresponding author), Odessa Mckenna (0000-0002-3670-1867, University of Ottawa), D Holmberg (0000-0003-0349-9786, Acadia University)
Year2022
Volume39
Issue9
Pages2914-2938
Publication date2022-09-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Social and Personal Relationships (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0265-4075 • E-ISSN: 1460-3608
PublisherSAGE Publications Inc (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1177/02654075221090678
PMID35991526
OpenAlexW4224211883
LanguageEN
Citations received8
References cited50

This study compared public versus private affection-sharing experiences of individuals in mixed-sex ( N = 1018), same-sex ( N = 561), and gender-diverse ( N = 96) relationships. Private affection-sharing was similar across groups, except those in mixed-sex relationships reported somewhat less comfort doing so. Despite having a stronger desire to engage in public affection-sharing, those in same-sex and gender-diverse relationships shared public affection less frequently, were less comfortable doing so, refrained from doing so more often, and experienced much higher levels of vigilance related to public affection-sharing, compared to those in mixed-sex relationships. Heightened PDA-related vigilance may have health consequences, as higher levels were associated with worse psychological and physical well-being in all groups. However, individuals in same-sex relationships showed weaker associations between vigilance and well-being than those in mixed-sex relationships, suggesting possible resilience. Still, engaging in vigilance may take its toll, potentially serving as a mechanism through which minority stress works its effects. When we controlled for PDA-related vigilance, psychological and physical well-being levels in same-sex relationships increased relative to mixed-sex peers

Affection · Cognitive psychology · Developmental psychology · Vigilance (psychology · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · LGBTQ Health, Identity, and Policy · Psychology · Sexuality, Behavior, and Technology · Social Psychology

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