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I am the mother of the kind of child you dread having

Experiences of living with chronic sorrow among parents with a disabled child

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ID5158320
AuthorsEdith Raap (0000-0002-3660-0564, University of Applied Sciences in Utrecht, The Netherlands), Katie Lee Weille (0009-0002-0736-7705, Webster University, The Netherlands), Christine Dedding (0000-0003-3296-4245, Amsterdam UMC (VUmc), Afdeling Ethiek, Recht en Humaniora, The Netherlands)
Year2025
Volume30
Issue9
Pages2158-2171
Publication date2025-08-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Health Psychology (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 1359-1053 • E-ISSN: 1461-7277
PublisherSAGE Publications Inc (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1177/13591053241292822
PMID39545707
OpenAlexW4404393763
LanguageEN
Citations received1
References cited34

Chronic sorrow involves parents' enduring grief due to their child's disability. This stems not only from the recurring painful reality parents face, which differs from the life they had hoped for their children, families, and themselves but from also being confronted with societal and personal norms and expectations they cannot meet. There is a lack of research on the lived experiences of parents' chronic sorrow. An Interpretative Phenomenological Analysis (IPA) study involving six parents with severely disabled children explored what it is like for parents to confront being "different." Besides sorrow, the parents experienced intense ambiguity, guilt, and uncertainty while navigating societal expectations and their own perceptions of their children. Their ideas of parenthood and their self-identity as parents proved central to their strategies. This study provides insight into the intricacies of this particular aspect of chronic sorrow in parents, with relevance for research and practice

Developmental psychology · Grief · Identity (music · Interpretative phenomenological analysis · Psychotherapist · Qualitative research · Sociology · Sorrow · Family and Disability Support Research · Family and Patient Care in Intensive Care Units · Infant Development and Preterm Care · Psychology · Social Psychology

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Citation span2025 - 2025 (1)
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