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Mothers' Perspectives on Resistance and Defiance in Middle Childhood

Promoting Autonomy and Social Skill

Bibliographic Data

ID5933403
AuthorsLeon Kuczynski (0000-0002-4521-2408, University of Guelph, corresponding author), Taniesha Burke (University of Konstanz), Pauline Song-Choi (0000-0001-9610-6018, University of Victoria)
Year2021
Volume10
Issue12
Pages469
Publication date2021-12-07
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueSocial Sciences (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 2076-0760 • E-ISSN: 2076-0760
PublisherMDPI AG (PUBLISHER • IT)
DOI10.3390/socsci10120469
OpenAlexW4200245588
LanguageEN
Citations received6
References cited30

This study explored mothers' perceptions of their children's resistance to their requests and defiance of parental authority during middle childhood and early adolescence. We were interested in parental perceptions of change in resistance, their interpretations of the meaning of resistance, and parental responses to these behaviors. Forty Canadian mothers of children 9-13 years of age participated for one week in a study focused on parents' experiences of children's resistance and opposition. Procedures consisted of a qualitative analysis of mothers' reports from a five-day event diary and a 1 h semi-structured interview. Mothers reported developmental changes in the quantity and quality of children's resistance to parental requests and expectations. Most mothers reported increasing displays of defiance and direct and indirect expressions of attitude but also noted changes in the skill with which children expressed resistance. Mothers interpreted children's resistance as annoying but normal expressions of children's developing autonomy. Mothers supported children's right to expression of agency through resistance but attempted to channel children's resistance toward socially competent expressions of assertiveness. The findings have implications for a relational perspective on autonomy-supportive parenting and parents' goals for children's developing social competence in the 21st century

Agency (philosophy · Assertiveness · Autonomy · Competence (human resources · Developmental psychology · Perception · Qualitative research · Resistance (ecology · Sociology · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Child and Adolescent Psychosocial and Emotional Development · Family and Disability Support Research · Psychology · Social Psychology

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