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Resisting temptation

Devaluation of alternative partners as a means of maintaining commitment in close relationships

Bibliographic Data

ID6207360
AuthorsDennis J Johnson (Microsoft (United States)), Caryl E Rusbult
Year1989
Volume57
Issue6
Pages967-980
Publication date1989-12-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessNo
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Personality and Social Psychology (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0022-3514 • E-ISSN: 1939-1315
PublisherAmerican Psychological Association (APA) (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1037//0022-3514.57.6.967
OpenAlexW4251764633
LanguageEN
Citations received203
References cited15

This work tested the hypothesis that persons who are more committed to their relationships devalue potential alternative partners, especially attractive and threatening alternatives. In Study 1, a longitudinal study, perceived quality of alternatives decreased over time among stayers but increased for leavers. In Study 2, a computer dating service paradigm, more committed persons exhibited greatest devaluation of alternatives under conditions of high threat—when personally evaluating extremely attractive alternative partners. In Study 3, a simulation experiment, the tendency to reject and devalue alternatives was greater under conditions of high commitment. In all three studies, tendencies to devalue were more strongly linked to commitment than to satisfaction

Devaluation · Developmental psychology · Economics · Monetary economics · Temptation · Work (physics) · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Evolutionary Psychology and Human Behavior · Psychology · Psychology of Social Influence · Social Psychology

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