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So far away from one's partner, yet so close to romantic alternatives

Avoidant attachment, interest in alternatives, and infidelity

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ID6201562
AuthorsC Nathan Dewall (0000-0001-5469-6849, University of Kentucky), Nathaniel M Lambert (Florida State University), Erica B Slotter (0000-0003-3760-7546, Northwestern University), Richard S Pond (0000-0001-5446-7456, University of Kentucky), Timothy Deckman (University of Kentucky), E J Finkel (0000-0002-0213-5318, Northwestern University), Laura B Luchies (Northwestern University), F D Fincham (0000-0001-5081-2283, Florida State University)
Year2011
Volume101
Issue6
Pages1302-1316
Publication date2011-12-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessNo
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Personality and Social Psychology (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0022-3514 • E-ISSN: 1939-1315
PublisherAmerican Psychological Association (APA) (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1037/a0025497
PMID21967006
OpenAlexW2153599268
LanguageEN
Citations received55
References cited33

Temptation pervades modern social life, including the temptation to engage in infidelity. The present investigation examines one factor that may put individuals at a greater risk of being unfaithful to their partner: dispositional avoidant attachment style. The authors hypothesize that avoidantly attached people may be less resistant to temptations for infidelity due to lower levels of commitment in romantic relationships. This hypothesis was confirmed in 8 studies. People with high, vs. low, levels of dispositional avoidant attachment had more permissive attitudes toward infidelity (Study 1), showed attentional bias toward attractive alternative partners (Study 2), expressed greater daily interest in meeting alternatives to their current relationship partner (Study 5), perceived alternatives to their current relationship partner more positively (Study 6), and engaged in more infidelity over time (Studies 3, 4, 7, and 8). This effect was mediated by lower levels of commitment (Studies 5-8). Thus, avoidant attachment predicted a broad spectrum of responses indicative of interest in alternatives and propensity to engage in infidelity, which were mediated by low levels of commitment

Attachment theory · Developmental psychology · Partner effects · Permissive · Romance · Temptation · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Evolutionary Psychology and Human Behavior · Marriage and Sexual Relationships · Psychology · Social Psychology

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