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What Do You Do When Things Go Right? The Intrapersonal and Interpersonal Benefits of Sharing Positive Events

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ID6207470
AuthorsShelly L Gable (0000-0002-7892-4292, University of California, Los Angeles), H T Reis (0000-0002-3542-6074, University of Rochester), Emily A Impett, Emily Impett (0000-0003-3348-7524, University of California, Los Angeles), Evan R Asher (University of Rochester)
Year2004
Volume87
Issue2
Pages228-245
Publication date2004-08-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessNo
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Personality and Social Psychology (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0022-3514 • E-ISSN: 1939-1315
PublisherAmerican Psychological Association (APA) (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1037/0022-3514.87.2.228
PMID15301629
OpenAlexW2130085464
LanguageEN
Citations received295
References cited73

Four studies examined the intrapersonal and interpersonal consequences of seeking out others when good things happen (i.e., capitalization). Two studies showed that communicating personal positive events with others was associated with increased daily positive affect and well-being, above and beyond the impact of the positive event itself and other daily events. Moreover, when others were perceived to respond actively and constructively (and not passively or destructively) to capitalization attempts, the benefits were further enhanced. Two studies found that close relationships in which one's partner typically responds to capitalization attempts enthusiastically were associated with higher relationship well-being (e.g., intimacy, daily marital satisfaction). The results are discussed in terms of the theoretical and empirical importance of understanding how people "cope" with positive events, cultivate positive emotions, and enhance social bonds

Affect (linguistics) · Capitalization · Interpersonal communication · Interpersonal relationship · Intrapersonal communication · Psychotherapist · Well-being · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Media Influence and Health · Psychological Well-being and Life Satisfaction · Psychology · Social Psychology

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