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When inclusion costs and ostracism pays, ostracism still hurts

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ID10165482
AuthorsIlja Van Beest (0000-0003-2855-3638, Leiden University, corresponding author), Kimberly D Williams (0000-0001-7159-1854, Purdue University West Lafayette), Kipling D Williams
Year2006
Volume91
Issue5
Pages918-928
Publication date2006-10-24
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessNo
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Personality and Social Psychology (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0022-3514 • E-ISSN: 1939-1315
PublisherAmerican Psychological Association (PUBLISHER • US)
DOI10.1037/0022-3514.91.5.918
PMID17059310
OpenAlexW1981647801
LanguageEN
Citations received151
References cited24

Recent research indicates that ostracism is painful even in the face of mitigating circumstances. However, in all previous experiments, there have been no costs to inclusion or benefits for ostracism. If being included meant losing money and being ostracized meant retaining money, would individuals still be distressed when ostracized? In 2 studies, the authors attempted to "load the dice" against inclusion in favor of ostracism. Participants played a variant of Cyberball called euroyberball (pronounced Euroball), in which ostracism and inclusion were crossed with whether the participants earned or lost money for each ball toss they received. In 2 experiments, the authors found that even when being ostracized meant retaining more money than the other players, it was painful. In Study 2, the authors also introduced conditions in which participants were overincluded. In these conditions, participants were sensitive to financial incentives. However, even then participants felt worse when given no positive attention than when given punitive attention

Economics · Incentive · Inclusion (mineral · Ostracism · Death Anxiety and Social Exclusion · Grief, Bereavement, and Mental Health · Paranormal Experiences and Beliefs · Psychology · Social Psychology

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