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Attachment insecurity and inducing guilt to produce desired change in romantic partners

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ID19002009
AuthorsShanuki D Jayamaha (0000-0002-4440-6710, University of Auckland New Zealand, corresponding author), Christian Antonellis (University of Auckland New Zealand), Nickola C Overall (0000-0002-9703-4383, University of Auckland New Zealand, corresponding author)
Year2016
Volume23
Issue2
Pages311-338
Publication date2016-04-13
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenuePersonal Relationships (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 1350-4126 • E-ISSN: 1475-6811
PublisherWiley (PUBLISHER • GB)
DOI10.1111/pere.12128
OpenAlexW2340084454
LanguageEN
Citations received13
References cited46

Three studies examined the links between attachment insecurity and the use and effectiveness of inducing guilt to produce change in romantic partners (negative‐indirect partner regulation strategies). Individuals higher in attachment anxiety engaged in more negative‐indirect partner regulation strategies (Studies 1–3), but the effectiveness of negative‐indirect strategies depended on targeted partners' attachment avoidance. Targets higher in attachment avoidance reported regulation agents were less successful (Study 1) and reported less motivation to change across time (Study 2) when agents used more negative‐indirect regulation strategies. Negative‐indirect strategies during couples' conflict discussions were also associated with lower problem resolution when targets were higher in avoidance (Study 3). These results provide the first demonstration that target characteristics moderate the effectiveness of negative‐indirect regulation strategies

Anxiety · Developmental psychology · Indirect effect · Political science · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Evolutionary Psychology and Human Behavior · Marriage and Sexual Relationships · Psychology · Social Psychology

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