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Is it something I said? Sense of humor and partner embarrassment

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ID2925207
AuthorsJeffrey A Hall (0000-0002-8252-3184, University of Kansas, corresponding author)
Year2011
Volume28
Issue3
Pages383-405
Publication date2011-05-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Social and Personal Relationships (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0265-4075 • E-ISSN: 1460-3608
PublisherSAGE Publications Inc (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1177/0265407510384422
OpenAlexW2103744404
LanguageEN
Citations received12
References cited48

This manuscript explores one romantic partner's humor use and the resulting embarrassment felt by the other partner using coorientation theory. Self-report and partner perception data were gathered from 106 couples (N = 212) in romantic relationships, and two coorientation variables were calculated. Actor-Partner Independence Models estimated the relationships between four humor styles and partner embarrassment. Aggressive humor was related to partner embarrassment and self-defeating humor with feeling embarrassed by one's partner. For women, perceived similarity in aggressive and self-defeating humor mitigated embarrassment, and greater understanding of men's self-defeating humor was related to embarrassment. In Study 2, a 2 × 2 experiment (N = 222) tested whether self-defeating humor predicts embarrassment or whether embarrassment predicts self-defeating humor use, with results supporting the former

Embarrassment · Feeling · Independence (probability theory · Perception · Psychoanalysis · Romance · Sense of humor · Communication in Education and Healthcare · Humor Studies and Applications · Media Influence and Health · Psychology · Social Psychology

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Citations per year0,8
Citation span2011 - 2025 (15)
Citation velocityrecent
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