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Friendship and Gender

Perspectives of Professional Men and Women

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ID2929397
AuthorsLinda A Sapadin (City University of New York Graduate Center), Linda Sapadin (The Graduate Center, CUNY, corresponding author)
Year1988
Volume5
Issue4
Pages387-403
Publication date1988-11-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Social and Personal Relationships (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0265-4075 • E-ISSN: 1460-3608
PublisherSAGE Publications Inc (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1177/0265407588054001
OpenAlexW2157184656
LanguageEN
Citations received82
References cited18

Same- and cross-sex friendships of 156 professional men and women were investigated using a self-report questionnaire consisting of rating scales and open-ended questions. Results indicated that while both sexes viewed the characteristics of an ideal friendship in similar ways, their actual experiences of friendships differed. Women's same-sex friendships were rated higher for overall quality, intimacy, enjoyment and nurturance. Men, on the other hand, rated their cross-sex friendships higher in these areas, with the exception of intimacy which was rated the same by men in both same- and cross-sex friendships. Cross-sex friendships provided both sexes with new understandings and perspectives of the opposite sex. Both sexes generally kept their friendships and sexual relationships separate though sexual feelings and tensions still existed in many cross-sex friendships. These results are similar to findings from studies with college students, indicating that women's participation in professional roles has not resulted in dramatic changes in friendship patterns. Gender differences in same- and cross-sex friendships remain strong, despite new career roles for women

Developmental psychology · Feeling · Friendship · Human sexuality · Ideal (ethics · Same sex · Sexual relationship · Sociology · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Gender Diversity and Inequality · Gender Studies · Psychology · Social Psychology · Work-Family Balance Challenges

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Unique citing works82
Citations per year2,16
Citation span1988 - 2026 (39)
Citation velocitycurrent
Highly citedNo
Citation typesNeutral: 78

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