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The attraction-similarity hypothesis among cross-sex friends

Relationship satisfaction, perceived similarities, and self-serving perceptions

Bibliographic Data

ID2932262
AuthorsMarian M Morry (University of Manitoba, corresponding author)
Year2007
Volume24
Issue1
Pages117-138
Publication date2007-02-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Social and Personal Relationships (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0265-4075 • E-ISSN: 1460-3608
PublisherSAGE Publications Inc (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1177/0265407507072615
OpenAlexW2139336965
LanguageEN
Citations received44
References cited64

Individuals often project their own attitudes, behaviors, or relationship views onto close others. These perceptions may or may not be accurate but they influence relationship judgments. Based on the attraction-similarity hypothesis, three studies examine the role of friendship satisfaction in perceptions of similarity in terms of relationship beliefs, traits, and behaviors among cross-sex friends. Study 1 found that college students perceived their cross-sex friends to be similar to themselves. Interclass correlations indicated that these perceptions reflected a belief in the partner's similarity to the self rather then being an accurate assessment. Supporting the attraction-similarity hypothesis, Studies 2 and 3 found that greater friendship satisfaction predicted greater perceived friend-self similarity for traits and behaviors. Finally, these perceptions were made in a self-enhancing fashion

Attraction · Developmental psychology · Friendship · Interpersonal attraction · Perception · Similarity (geometry · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Behavioral Health and Interventions · Psychology · Social and Intergroup Psychology · Social Psychology

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