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Similarity breeds liking' revisited

The moderating role of commitment

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ID2934865
AuthorsDavid M Amodio (0000-0001-7746-0150, New York University), Carolin J Showers (University of Oklahoma)
Year2005
Volume22
Issue6
Pages817-836
Publication date2005-12-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Social and Personal Relationships (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0265-4075 • E-ISSN: 1460-3608
PublisherSAGE Publications Inc (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1177/0265407505058701
OpenAlexW2134312772
LanguageEN
Citations received35
References cited49

The association between perceived similarity and liking for a romantic partner was examined in college students' relationships over the course of one year. Despite substantial evidence that similarity breeds attraction, perceived attribute similarity was positively correlated with liking only in highcommitment relationships. In low-commitment relationships, perceived dissimilarity was associated with greater liking and with maintenance of liking over time, consistent with Aron and Aron's (1997) self-expansion model. Relationship status (ongoing or ended) after one year was primarily explained by commitment at time 1. However, high perceived similarity appeared to buffer couples against destructive accommodation responses; relatively destructive responses were associated with ended status only when perceived similarity was low

Association (psychology · Attraction · Developmental psychology · Romance · Similarity (geometry · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Customer Service Quality and Loyalty · Evolutionary Psychology and Human Behavior · Psychology · Social Psychology

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Citations per year1,67
Citation span2005 - 2025 (21)
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