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Feeling Close and Seeing a Partner in a New Light

How Self-Expansion Is Associated With Sexual Desire

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ID2935809
AuthorsSophie C Go, Sophie Go, Sophie Goss (York University), Sophie C Goss (York University), Stephanie Raposo (0000-0002-5338-5253, York University), Rhonda Balzarini (0000-0001-7443-1266, Texas State University), Natalie O Rosen (0000-0002-4525-0770, Departments of Psychology & Neuroscience and Obstetrics & Gynaecology, Dalhousie University, Halifax, NS, Canada), Veronica Benyamin (0000-0002-3576-804X, York University), Amy Muise (0000-0002-9000-4106, York University, corresponding author)
Year2022
Volume39
Issue8
Pages2478-2506
Publication date2022-08-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Social and Personal Relationships (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0265-4075 • E-ISSN: 1460-3608
PublisherSAGE Publications Inc (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1177/02654075221081137
OpenAlexW4220763343
LanguageEN
Citations received10
References cited55

Sexual desire is associated with romantic relationship satisfaction and maintenance, yet desire for a partner often declines over time. Self-expansion (new experiences that facilitate growth) with a partner boosts desire, but how this occurs is not well-understood. Across three studies-a 21-day daily experience study, a one-month weekly experience study, and an experimental study-we tested whether closeness, and a new construct otherness (seeing a partner in a new light), accounted for the association between self-expansion and desire. Across studies, self-expansion was associated with higher closeness and otherness, and, in turn, higher sexual desire (indirect effect through otherness significant in Studies 1 and 3). The findings provide evidence for the importance of fostering closeness, as well as otherness, in the maintenance of desire

Association (psychology · Closeness · Construct (python library · Developmental psychology · Feeling · Human sexuality · Psychoanalysis · Psychotherapist · Romance · Sexual desire · Sexual relationship · Sociology · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Evolutionary Psychology and Human Behavior · Gender Studies · Psychology · Sexual function and dysfunction studies · Social Psychology

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Citations per year2,5
Citation span2022 - 2026 (5)
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