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Ghosting and destiny

Implicit theories of relationships predict beliefs about ghosting

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ID2931878
AuthorsGili Freedman (0000-0002-7006-9674, Dartmouth College, corresponding author), Darcey N Powell (0000-0001-6076-9741, Roanoke College), Benjamin Le (0000-0001-5522-6654, Haverford College), Kimberly D Williams (0000-0001-7159-1854, Purdue University, USA), Kipling D Williams
Year2019
Volume36
Issue3
Pages905-924
Publication date2019-03-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Social and Personal Relationships (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0265-4075 • E-ISSN: 1460-3608
PublisherSAGE Publications Inc (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1177/0265407517748791
OpenAlexW2782714068
LanguageEN
Citations received53
References cited41

Two studies examined how implicit theories of relationships are associated with ghosting (i.e., ending a relationship by cutting off all contact). Previous research on implicit theories of relationships has identified two types of beliefs, destiny and growth, and the present research examines how these implicit theories are associated with ghosting perceptions, intentions, and behaviors. Study 1 was an exploratory study conducted on Mechanical Turk that focused on romantic relationships ( N = 554). Study 2 was a confirmatory study conducted on Prolific Academic that aimed to replicate the romantic relationship findings and extended the research to friendships ( N = 747). Stronger destiny beliefs, compared to weaker destiny beliefs, were positively associated with feeling more positively toward ghosting, having stronger ghosting intentions, and having previously used ghosting to terminate relationships. Stronger growth beliefs, compared to weaker growth beliefs, showed the opposite pattern with perceptions of acceptability and intentions to use ghosting. Taken together, the present research provides an important first step in understanding how implicit theories relate to relationship termination strategies and, specifically, the process of ghosting

Destiny (ISS module · Feeling · Ghosting · Perception · Psychoanalysis · Romance · Death Anxiety and Social Exclusion · Media Influence and Health · Psychology · Social and Intergroup Psychology · Social Psychology

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