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When “together” means “too close

Agency motives and relationship functioning in coresident and living-apart-together couples

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ID6202894
AuthorsBirk Hagemeyer (0000-0003-4833-1370, Friedrich Schiller University Jena), Felix Schönbrodt (0000-0002-8282-3910, Ludwig-Maximilians-Universität München), Franz J Neyer (0000-0001-8123-2011, Friedrich Schiller University Jena), Wiebke Neberich (Humboldt-Universität zu Berlin), Jens B Asendorpf (0000-0002-2576-1792, Humboldt-Universität zu Berlin)
Year2015
Volume109
Issue5
Pages813-835
Publication date2015-01-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessNo
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Personality and Social Psychology (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0022-3514 • E-ISSN: 1939-1315
PublisherAmerican Psychological Association (APA) (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1037/pspi0000031
PMID26371399
OpenAlexW2291697679
LanguageEN
Citations received13
References cited57

The present research addresses the interplay between agency motives and objective dyadic closeness with regard to the functioning of intimate couple relationships. Applying a Person × Situation approach, we hypothesized (a) that partners' implicit and explicit agency motives predict their selection of dyadic living arrangements characterized by high or low objective closeness (coresidence or living-apart-together), (b) that agency motives have more negative effects on relationship functioning in coresident couples, (c) that agency motives predict agentic motivational states in coresident couples, and (d) that agentic states predict day-to-day changes in relationship satisfaction under conditions of high objective closeness. We found support for these between- and within-couple hypotheses in cross-sectional and prospective analyses of an age-heterogeneous sample of 548 heterosexual couples, and in a 2-week diary study with a subsample of 106 couples. Most notably, agentic motive dispositions and motivational states related to relationship functioning more negatively under conditions of high objective closeness. The overall positive effect of objective closeness on relationship functioning was diminished by strong agentic motivation. Perspectives for future research on agency motives in couple relationships are discussed

Agency (philosophy) · Closeness · Developmental psychology · Positive relationship · Well-being · Attachment and Relationship Dynamics · Evolutionary Psychology and Human Behavior · Family Dynamics and Relationships · Psychology · Social Psychology

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