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What does it mean to feel loved

Cultural consensus and individual differences in felt love

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ID2936410
AuthorsSaeideh Heshmati (0000-0003-4002-128X, Pennsylvania State University, corresponding author), Zita Oravecz (0000-0002-9070-3329, Pennsylvania State University), Sarah D Pressman (0000-0003-1576-6466, University of California, Irvine), Sarah Pressman (University of California, Irvine), William H Batchelder (0000-0003-0579-7752, University of California, Irvine), Chelsea Muth (Pennsylvania State University), Joachim Vandekerckhove (0000-0003-2600-5937, University of California, Irvine)
Year2019
Volume36
Issue1
Pages214-243
Publication date2019-01-01
Peer ReviewedYes
Open AccessYes
TypeARTICLE
VenueJournal of Social and Personal Relationships (JOURNAL)
Journal identifiersISSN: 0265-4075 • E-ISSN: 1460-3608
PublisherSAGE Publications Inc (PUBLISHER)
DOI10.1177/0265407517724600
OpenAlexW2742469099
LanguageEN
Citations received14
References cited75

Cultural consensus theory is a statistical framework (CCT) for the study of individual differences in the knowledge of culturally shared opinions. In this article, we demonstrate how a CCT analysis can be used to study individual differences and cultural consensus on what makes people feel loved, or more generally any social behaviors that are governed by cognitive schemata. To highlight the advantages of the method, we describe a study in which people reported on their everyday experiences of feeling loved. Our unique approach to understanding this topic is to focus on people's cognitive evaluations on what feeling loved (both romantically and nonromantically) entails by exploring the shared agreement regarding when one is most likely to feel loved and the individual differences that influence knowledge of these shared agreements. Our results reveal that people converge on a consensus about indicators of expressed love and that these scenarios are both romantic and nonromantic. Moreover, people show individual differences in (1) the amount of knowledge they have about this consensus and (2) their guessing biases in responding to items on love scenarios, depending on personality and demographics-all conclusions made possible by the CCT method

Cognition · Feeling · Need for cognition · Personality · Psychoanalysis · Romance · Cultural Differences and Values · Evolutionary Psychology and Human Behavior · Psychology · Social and Intergroup Psychology · Social Psychology

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Citation span2019 - 2026 (8)
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